Outside of session wrestling, I've probably had the most success on this front with women I've met in person. In my experience, women don't really find it to be all that weird at all.
I don't think it's really all that bold of a statement unless we're narrowly talking about competitive matches; I'm referring to women that I've dated that had compatible kinks. These obviously have not been competitive, but honestly most session wrestlers I've met don't do that either.
Real ones are hard to find. I met Lady Ellen on a site she developed to sell her videos. We had a a close relationship for a while that eventually morphed into a brother/sister friendship and we talked occasionally - special holidays. She married a great guy I met and was very happy. Unfortunately, she died several years ago unexpectedly. I still miss her. Back to the question. That’s how I met her. I am now married to a wonderful woman that wrestles. We put on the tights and wrestle occasionally but that is not the center of our relationship nor should it be anyone else’s. For me, it has been a happy bi-product.
The question was, how to find women who wrestle. In my clumsy way, I was trying to explain my journey. I suppose there are many ways to find women who wrestle. For many, me in particular, I have wanted to find a woman I could establish a connection with first. Wrestling is a side benefit. I hope this explains it better.
It’s a diamond in the rough if you can find one. Have had no success on Fetlife, MF or any other site. My ex discovered my love of fm wrestling, was turned off at first but accepted the fact that I loved it. Had a few matches then stopped completely. I was almost there!
Perfect Gentleman (5)
11/19/2025 9:10 PMOutside of session wrestling, I've probably had the most success on this front with women I've met in person. In my experience, women don't really find it to be all that weird at all.
Sidlutta (2 )
11/20/2025 5:20 AM(In reply to this)
Bold statement. How many non session mixed matches have you had ?
Perfect Gentleman (5)
11/20/2025 12:21 PM(In reply to this)
I don't think it's really all that bold of a statement unless we're narrowly talking about competitive matches; I'm referring to women that I've dated that had compatible kinks. These obviously have not been competitive, but honestly most session wrestlers I've met don't do that either.
Profan58 (2)
11/24/2025 4:06 PM(In reply to this)
You’re right, PG. There are very few session girls that do competitive matches. All say it’s due to getting hurt and not being able to make a living.
Medic20 (8)
11/18/2025 5:38 PMReal ones are hard to find. I met Lady Ellen on a site she developed to sell her videos. We had a a close relationship for a while that eventually morphed into a brother/sister friendship and we talked occasionally - special holidays. She married a great guy I met and was very happy. Unfortunately, she died several years ago unexpectedly. I still miss her. Back to the question. That’s how I met her. I am now married to a wonderful woman that wrestles. We put on the tights and wrestle occasionally but that is not the center of our relationship nor should it be anyone else’s. For me, it has been a happy bi-product.
Midwest Catfighter (0)
11/19/2025 1:19 AM(In reply to this)
Not sure that was the question...but thanks for the trip down memory lane
Medic20 (8)
11/19/2025 4:25 PM(In reply to this)
The question was, how to find women who wrestle. In my clumsy way, I was trying to explain my journey. I suppose there are many ways to find women who wrestle. For many, me in particular, I have wanted to find a woman I could establish a connection with first. Wrestling is a side benefit. I hope this explains it better.
Profan58 (2)
11/19/2025 4:53 PM(In reply to this)
It’s a diamond in the rough if you can find one. Have had no success on Fetlife, MF or any other site. My ex discovered my love of fm wrestling, was turned off at first but accepted the fact that I loved it. Had a few matches then stopped completely. I was almost there!
Liam lover (2)
11/19/2025 4:46 PM(In reply to this)
Honestly, I'm only asking to find out who I fought against, although I understand and value your experience.
Rivalfighter99 (0)
11/17/2025 7:42 PMMost of them on fetlife and reddit, you find them on dating and IG
Midwest Catfighter (0)
11/15/2025 11:28 PMummmm...they are all over the internet
Liam lover (2)
11/16/2025 12:11 PM(In reply to this)
They are hard to find. XD
Liam lover (2)
11/14/2025 2:14 PMOr at least the existence of a website where that can be seen?
Liam lover (2)
11/14/2025 2:10 PMI'm new here, and I'm mainly looking for a FvsM fight, though I'm open to suggestions.