Hi there

Thanks for taking the time to look at my profile.

Over the course of the past 3/4 years I have lost a total of 7.5 stone (105 lbs) — not because of illness, but because I realised I was doing my body real harm.

My mobility had dropped so much that even walking short distances became tough, and having to use a stick was a major turning point. Losing a very good friend to a massive heart attack and another to pancreatic cancer helped make that decision.

With absolute respect to anyone facing mobility challenges, I knew I had to make changes for myself.

That decision completely shifted my mindset. I feel healthier, more confident, and yes — my sex drive is thriving too.

I’m very open-minded and hard to offend. You can ask me anything — the worst I’ll do is look surprised. After all, if you don’t ask, you don’t get! 😀

My main kinks include naked combat, cockfighting, wank fights, and 69 endurance tests. I’m a proud left-hander in that respect, and I like to think of myself as holding a black belt in the art of wanking (though I still meet a few opponents who manage to outlast me 😂).

I prefer playing with guys of a similar or larger build. I respect smaller guys, but I find myself being overly careful, which takes away much of the fun.

I’m also into rip & strip, so wear tracksuit bottoms (sweatpants) and expect an old T-shirt to be torn apart with hands or teeth — and yes, I expect the same in return.

Outside the ring, I’ve got a big passion for martial arts. I hold a yellow belt in GKR Karate, and I love watching fights and films — they’re my kind of “porn”. Fair warning: I often get turned on while watching 😜.

Verbal play and trash talk are big turn-ons for me, especially using surnames during fights. That said, I never go racial — I’ve got too many friends worldwide and a lot of respect for them.

This is a hobby and a fetish, not something I’d ever want to damage anyone’s relationships or personal life. If you’re partnered, straight or gay, you’ll find I’m respectful of that.

I’ve got a wicked sense of humour and I enjoy banter before and after a meet. I never set out to insult anyone, but if someone is deliberately nasty, I won’t hesitate to say “fuck off” plainly.

If I message you, I’d really appreciate a reply, even if it’s just “no thanks”. No explanation is needed, we all have different needs, and I won’t be offended.

I don’t fight women, nor want them involved. I’m also not into scat, blood, or pain.

I was born with a weaker right side, but I’m enthusiastic, energetic, and always give my best.

I enjoy chatting on the phone, by text, or online, including WhatsApp and zoom. Things can get very erotic in conversation, and it’s for mutual enjoyment and a very happy ending 😈.

I also love getting to know people socially. Meeting for a drink or meal before or after adds to the connection — we may be “warriors” in combat, but we can still be friends off the mat. A drink before can set any scene or start the verbal dialogue if you wish.

I very much believe in getting to know someone — their likes, dislikes, and stories — it makes everything more enjoyable.

Thanks again for reading this far 🫡. Hopefully we’ll find enough common ground to chat or meet up.

Stay safe and well, and I look forward to hearing from you.

Also on Telegram @paulhelpspeople

P.S. I’ve had all seven COVID jabs (as of Nov 2024).

Outside of this, I run my own business under the brand Paul Helps People. I’ve got two sides to it:
• I’m an independent travel agent with over 40 years’ experience, booking leisure and corporate travel worldwide.
• I’m also a Utility Warehouse partner, helping people across the UK save money on their everyday household bills. Likewise I work with two commercial brokers to help businesses all over the UK with their energy and telecoms.

If you’d like to know more, you can find me here:

🔗 https://uw.partners/paul.smith/join
🔗 https://linktr.ee/wottravel

Or drop me an email at: paul@paulhelpspeople.co.uk (please mention Meetfighters).