I'm using this for dating mostly, but I do love meeting new people, I have met some lovely people on this and I hope to continue meeting nice people.

If you're wanting to date me, I do have a couple of non-negotiables:

No Ghosting.
Regular Communication.
You're honest and loyal to me.
You want to spend time with me.
You make an effort to be available (just like I will do the same for you).

For friends on the app, I'm happy to have a playful light wrestle. I hate being overly competitive. It's not really fun for me doing it that way. I like give and take, one sided (Domming or subbing for someone), exchanging holds (being loose e.g. not making it hard for me to breathe in a headlock - if I wanted to wrestle or date a murderer I'd have asked for that). Everything is to be light, but enjoyable for both parties. I don't mind being a little bit competitive. E.g. I'm happy to attempt a Boston crab and you resist until I can finally lock in the hold. I am also happy to allow a person to be in holds for a long period of time for enjoyment if that's more your style. E.g. if you like being scissored or camel clutched, I can do those for you for a long time. That kinda thing is better discussed on day meetups.

Other than that, please feel free to message me and chat away as much as you like. I will admit I hate when people constantly arrange to meet and things constantly come up. It's not a good look. Work is important yes, but pushing folk away who wanna spend time with you isn't cool ever.

Happy to travel to Dundee, Edinburgh, Glasgow or anywhere close to those regions.