I'm using this for dating, I just hope to find the right man who can match my intensity in a competitive and friendly way, but can rough house with me with Jiu-jitsu/wrestling, but also looking for someone to treat me like I matter to them. I suppose you could say I'm looking for 'the one', but I know many people don't use this for dating. I'm pretty chilled out and laid back. I'm open to making friends too, but would prefer to date people on this and see how things go.