I am an otherwise normal guy who enjoys submission or promission. If it's sub, we enter as rivals, and leave as much more. We stick the rules and hug it out hard at the end in a sign of mutual respect. There's nothing like becoming bros (and maybe more) after we settle it on the mat. I have a preference for tight, intimate, long-held holds: sleepers, Boston crab, camel clutch, head scissors, bear hugs. The closer, the better!

Gear: speedos or jocks. I am flexible. It's about us both having fun.