Agonophile here. This is what Wiktionary says:

Agonophilia (n) : A type of paraphilia or sexual interest characterised by arousal from acts of struggling, fighting, or pretending to resist before being overpowered.

In my case, I like the physicality of fighting (wrestling, boxing), and I'm drawn to powerful (solid, well built) blokes with cocky arrogance.

I'm particularly turned on by mismatches, especially guys who have no chance of fending off an onslaught from a bigger, more powerful opponent, and just have to take the punishment for as long as the big guy wants to dish it out.

I'm mostly on here to chat, especially with other blokes who (given the above definition) are agonophiles - either receiving or dishing out the pain.

That said, it's not impossible to organise a meet for a fight with local blokes - I have very limited experience or gear, but always happy to give something a go.