I'm Joe, 54, based in Los Angeles. I weight train 6 to 7 days a week, get my cardio from boxing (3x a week) and running…getting addicted to pickle ball.. Keeping in the kind of shape that lets me keep up on the mat with guys half my age.

My styles are Olympic and Greco Roman wrestling, submission grappling, and boxing, and I enjoy watching a good match almost as much as being in one. I like the close contact, the sweat, and the slow back and forth of two guys testing each other. I'm steady and patient rather than aggressive, and I tend to take control quietly, letting a match build until one of us gives in. I'm never rough for the sake of it, and I pay attention to what my partner wants.

I'm looking for fit, easygoing men who enjoy wrestling and don't mind where a good session leads. Respect, discretion, and a sense of humor go a long way with me. If you like a strong but gentle opponent, send me a note.