#Black Lives Matter (still!)
Update and status 4/20/26
Basic stuff:
I don't respond to "challenges", just send me a message.
At this point it is difficult to meet as I can't host, and take care of someone so hard to leave.
At least any more then a couple hours.
Most of my profile pics are older, I've been out of seriously lifting for a few years. Same weight, lot less muscle.

Please don't call me "daddy" or really any title until you have asked.
I don't use chat/cam apps (kik, skype, etc)

My first “intro” to this was sort of face sitting, squashing, the sensual domination type stuff. On both sides. I find it very primal and exciting.

At this point of my life, I’m not going for all out competitive (whatever the style) but something a little controlled, mainly as various responsibilities preclude injuries. If you want your limits pushed that would be negotiated on contact.
Lately am tending more to submissive/jobber but still switchy.

I have a BDSM background, some of my "energy" comes from that space. The sort of "primal" enjoyment of dominance through physical strength (actual strength/size or technique)
There can be anything from simple competition, sensual to the erotic.
For me I define that as:
Comp - just wrestling, whatever style
Sensual - sensual/sexual overtones. (skimpy clothed, face sitting, crotch to face etc)
Erotic - actual genitals are touched and orgasm happens.
More oral inclined if topping. Honest moment - I am not hung. (yeah tall, big feet, hands... nope.)