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“Hey man, I worked out all the details to fight this Hot Boxer this weekend and when I asked him about sex afterwards he blew me off and won’t respond. What’s the deal?”

“Dude! Just because the two of you share the same kink doesn’t mean you’re getting laid afterward.”

“What do you mean?”

“Sure you might look good in gear and actually give him a decent fight, but that doesn’t mean the two of you will hit it off sexually. He might think your breath stinks or you have ugly feet. Hitting it off in the ring doesn’t mean you’ll hit it off in the sheets. As much as many of us like to fantasize about two boxers getting it on after a match, NOTHING is guaranteed.”

“Oh.”

What’s up fellas? I probably ran a few of you off with that convo before my BOXING RANT can even begin, but its WWAAYY more common than you think. What’s the deal? How is this still a thing? Okay, so many of you are young and horny so just the thought of boxing a hot guy gets your cock ROCK hard. And some of you may be older and have a hard time meeting guys so you figure this is the perfect way to meet an athlete and/or sex partner. But it doesn’t mean after you two exchange blows you’ll be swapping spit. MeetFighters and few others sites are a good way to meet guys into your sport/kink, but it’s NOT a Definitive YES when it comes to laying the dude when the leather finally settles. TALK to your opponent FIRST. He might have a partner, be dating someone or just not plain interested in you sexually. He’s an athlete, he can get sex anywhere. There have been a multitude of guys I wanted to fuck after we fought, but the chemistry just wasn’t there. Nor was it agreed upon before our bout began.

Oh and asking if your opponent will fuck you after he knocks you out is Also NOT Guaranteed. It’s like basically luring a guy to the ring so you can take a few punches just to get some dick. YEESH! Dude are you that hard up?

Some guys might be taking this personal, but it’s NOT just about YOU. It’s about YOU and HIM. While you’re working out the details of the fight, work out the details of the aftermath. This is 2022, MAD KUDOS for showing up and actually putting on the gloves to fight, but making it to home base is never promised.

I’ve got a question: Why do men wait so late in life to come to terms with their attraction for Boxing? In truth, I believe I briefly spoke on this before… so I’d like some fresh perspectives.

In this current day and age with homosexuality being more widely accepted, why are men still waiting till they are past 40 & 50 to accept the fact that they’re “Agonophiliacs” - https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Agonophilia. Where is the shame? Given many people’s perception of gay men, how cool is it to defy the odds and present an entirely different aspect of a stereotypical image. What’s more masculine than a man that enjoy hitting on men? You like my pun there?
Interestingly, I know a guy that was quote straight unquote and didn’t want to tell his friends and family that he boxed because they would discover he was gay. WHAT THE ENTIRE FUCK?!?!?! I guess that should give you some idea of how screwed up some guys are in the head. But seriously… what’s the deal? If anyone watched Spartacus there were plenty of gay fighters in Greek times. Lord knows Knights were fucking their squires when the women were claiming virginity and rocking chastity belts.

Too often men deny their true selves only to have it forced to the surface later in life. I say Embrace ALL facets of your being and be who you were meant to be. You will NEVER look back and regret what you’ve done.

Special NOTE: Many of you might be surprised at the number of Pro and Amateur gay boxers out here.

“Hey man, I just got in town. Let’s fight!”
“What’s up stud? I’m glad to see you’re in town, but I’m busy. If you had messaged ahead of time, we could’ve done something. I’ve got OTHER plans tonight.”

I’M BACK for 2021 BOXERS! With a Fresh RANT!

Okay, so this just happened to me recently, but I’m told this happens to most of my fighting brethren in California. A guy comes into town and hits you up out of the blue wanting to fight. UHM… RUDE MUCH! How do you just show up without contacting the person you want to fight ahead of time? Is that person not human? They’re not your personal tool to summon like a mystical object. Did you not think that maybe they might have a life just like you? That perhaps they have a job, plans and other obligations other than your personal gratification. Given the difficultly and the specifics that need to be worked out for two guys to meet up and engage in fisticuffs; wouldn’t it be wise to “phone” or “text” ahead and let the other guy know you’re coming? I mean, call me crazy for being a considerate logical thinking person, but shouldn’t you arrange the specifics beforehand so the experience is much better for both of you?

Okay readers, let me hear from you. I’d love to hear you and your experience(s) with this.

“Hey man are you into such n such? (Not in my Profile!)”
“I’m into this (Also, Not in my Profile!)… can we meet up?”
“You look great! Can we meet to (DEFINITIVELY, Not in my Profile!) this…?”
“WHAT… THE… ENTIRE… FUCK…?”

YES! I’M BACK! How are we in 2020, some forty years after the advent of the modern home computer and internet only to have guys STILL NOT READING profiles? This is for all the NON-Readers, it’s time to utilize that skill and not the fantasy cock between your legs when reaching out to others.
How is it that I have a profile that CLEARLY states my kink, the kind of fights and things I’m looking for, etc. I even have pics to CLEARLY display these things, yet I’m getting “visitors” that see my pic and instantly envision me in their particular fantasy? It’s like SCREW whatever the hell I’m ACTUALLY in to. Apparently, I’m on this site for the objectification of onlookers and THEIR personal preferences and likes. Why bother with actually filling out a DETAILED description when every third guy passing by is just gonna make up what they want me to be. I have no free will of my own. How dare I suggest that I have an actual preference? I MUST be going about this whole thing the wrong way, to actually give a possible interest the option to finding out if we’re actually compatible... NO!
GET A FUCKING CLUE!
Here’s some STRONG Advice if you want to get a guy’s attention and have him take you seriously, READ THE DAMN PROFILE!! Myself and a few others have DEFINITIVE markers and points in our descriptions that if you violate, your message will be deleted and you may even get blocked the first time out. Treat people like the human being you want to be treated as… you know like that Bible verse says “Do unto others, as you would have other do unto you.” I promise you it will works wonders.
And if you’re a dick expect to get “dicked” around. I pass the soapbox onto the next RANT WARRIOR.

“So what do you like best about boxing?”
“Did you see the shot that the champ hit him with?”
“What’s your style of boxing?”
“How many guys have you fought?”
“What’s your favorite punch?”
“So what do you like best about boxing?”
“If we boxed what combination would you hit me with first?”

AAAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“WHAT… THE… FUCK…? Enough already!”

I’M BACK, with another Hot Beef. The TALKER! These guys know who they are. These “Wanna-be Boxers” that sit at home scouring the internet looking for a real boxer to talk about boxing. When they finally find him they practically glue the other guy to his virtual keyboard asking him every question under the sun about the sport like an interrogation and even inquire about the same things multiple times over. If you have good recollection about conversations like I do, it’s VERY irritating.

“What color is your gear?”
Blue
“Do you like throwing the uppercut?”
Yes
“When was your last fight?”
Last week
“What color is your gear?”
The same color as the first time you asked me!

I enjoy conversing about boxing just as much as the next guy, but DUDE! Are you’re gonna talk me to death? Honestly you can only talk about the sport so much before you have to Just Go and Do IT! This is even worse when you and the “perp” live in the same town! Look, I get it! This is your chance to live vicariously through the experience of an athlete that participates in the Sweet Science on a regular basis. But did it ever occur to you that this is like torture to them. They’ve BEEN there, DONE that! It’s time to just Shut Up and Fight. At some point you have to actually climb into the square circle and see what you’re made of. How tough is your mental and physical fortitude? Then you can create your OWN experiences and defining moments in time to be remember for the rest of your life.

Trust me on this... as someone that has pioneered his own path, it is FAR more rewarding than following in the footsteps of someone else.