Halfcain46's blog

I enjoy being part of the Meetfighters community. In my time on the site, I have met some truly wonderful people and had many excellent experiences.

My mindset has been "it is what it is"

I am a stocky but athletic guy who is the back half of his 50s. There will be guys that I know I will never get a chance to wrestle. Whether it is because of distance or lack of interest of compatibility, I accept that. 

I have learned over the years to read profiles carefully and make note of the type of opponent a guy wrestles and the type if match they like. If the dots dont fully connect, I wont contact them.

If i do reach out to someone and they tell me they are not interested, its no harm no foul. In the event a guy is rude to me or wants to point out what is wrong with me or my appearance, I dont get offended. It isnt worth my time or energy.

I used to get annoyed with the "no response is a response" crowd. I don't get annoyed anymore. There are times I have to put myself in another person's shoes and think about the messages they must get...and I get it.

Bottom line is its just wrestling. If an opportunity presents itself to have a match, let's get after it! I enjoy chatting with people all over the world just as much as wrestling.

I am looking forward to Chicago Wrestlefest. I knkw ill have some matches,but i am looking forward to meeting others. Meetfighers is a huge community and there is room of everybody.