blog de alfayiz

Ok so, as you know, about a month ago I signed up to a gym. This gives me an alibi or the perfect excuse to go meet people instead. Because MeetFighters doesn't have that many available users in my area, I decided to give a try to a very famous gay app (the one that starts with G and ends with R).

Over there, my profile was very strict. It was just the two photos of my profile in here where I appear wearing singlets. Cuaght some guys' attentions, but most of them were clearly into other types of business, I declined them all. 

Except this one guy, who showed interest. I was all excited, and we began chatting outside the app. I sent him wrestling videos about what I am into and what I wanted to do to him. He was all about it. "Never done it, but it looks exciting", he kept texting. 

So a couple of weeks later, the moment to meet arrives. I walk to his place. He is a bit serious but whatever, not everyone can be laughing always, I get it. 

He puts on my singlet. He seems to like it. Great. We begin struggling. He tries to lift me off, I lift him up and throw him (not throwing, more like letting him go) over his sofa. CLACK. His whole face changes. "My God, what have you done!". 

I try to say that I am sorry. He checks the damage, nothing at first glance. Good. Now its not the same anymore. He was the opposite of feisty. Any thing I tried on him he would just tell me to stop, why don't we do something more "normal" instead, that I am a "brute". 

While I do recognize the sofa incident was not ideal, the vibes between us were just off. He expected something different to what I was offering (even though I pretty much showed him what he was signing up for), and I wanted something he couldn't bring me.

So anyway, now on, no more apps that isn't this one. I know what I want, and what I want is rolling in sweat with a like-minded guy. If I just wanted to kiss and have sex, I would have found a guy I was actually attracted to, instead of the only guy in that cursed app who was ""ready"" to rumble. 

In this website there is a wide diversity on what we are looking for, but at least we are a bit more honest about it. 

Lesson learnt.