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Destructor de mobiliario a domicilio :p

Total. Al hacerlo sentí como si fuera un logro desbloqueado de un videojuego. "Logro Desbloqueado: A Tomar Por Culo El Sofá" 🤣

A veces es mejor solo buscar lucha en esta web y otras veces hasta la gente de aquí solo busca sexo... Cosas que pasan...

Coincido plenamente😓

Lesson learned. Never invite you at home with a nice sofa around. You brute! 🤣😜

I wouldn't break YOUR sofa my guy😝

Much as this didn’t work out, kudos for trying buddy, a bit of advice, more of “us” are on scruff than Grindr if you decide to have another go, that’s a good place to start!

Tried it once, but not many people in my area so...

No, in Spain scruff is not the best....

Osas apeleras en tu zona

No hay scruff en Apple?

Oh, didnt know Scruff is better "wrestling-wise", good to know💪

Scruff is great and I’ve met a lot of guys who are gay, bi, straight, or flexible on Fet as well. I’ve then introduced them to MF because a lot of them have never heard about it.

Whats fet?

FetLife is the most popular social network for the BDSM, fetish & kinky community.

Ive met a few guys through scruff for wrestling - its actually pretty good for that 😉

yes centaur, im usually on sniffies, but i need to go back on scruff, grindr has become so horrible to use . and im also hearing that hinge is good, from some users on reddit

Nada mejor que un colchon en el suelo o las colchonetas del decathlon XD ese simplemente queria tema y te estaba haciendo la pelota.

totalmente, no caí en la cuenta a tiempo 😭

The guy was probably poor and upset about the cost of repairing the sofa. Some people are constantly worried about making it to the end of the month with money left in the black. Or perhaps he'll need to explain why the sofa broke to someone who lives with him.

Yes, you were clumsy, and in your place I would have suggested paying for the repairs. You're grown men, what did you think would happen if you threw a grown man on a couch?

I don't want to defend G.....R, but the same type of accident could happen during a meeting on this site, and upset the other person equally. When we are guests, we treat the other person's home and belongings with the utmost care and respect. You never know if the person hosting us has children or parents who use these places to eat, sleep, or rest, and not as a wrestling playground.

While you are right about all these points, this guy specifically lived alone in his own place, which in this city, means he is well off.

Now, I do admit you make good points, and was the sofa really obviously broken, I would have offered to collaborate in its repair. Yet, after this happened, the guy hasnt reached out to me in any way, barely said goodbye as I left.

Hard disagree if you invite someone over you set the rules and talk about what is allowed, if you are going to get prissy get a hotel or find a field

Oh no way man!! I disagree big time. If youre a closeted player and dont have a place fit for wrestling, you dont invite people over!! Period. Dont make excuses man. Being a grown man and respect is a two way street. Be honest, communicate boundaries, or dont invite people over, and know what your limitations are. When I have guys over for fetish fun, we dont go into my bedroom, I explain exactly what I want, and my expectations. Im confident that my home can handle some rough housing too!

I've hardly used those dating apps, but there used to be many popular chat rooms in my country, spread across different cities. I searched for fighters there several times, and I always had to spend too much time explaining what I wanted. I was often ridiculed; some thought I wasn't really serious. I've had many bad encounters, and very few genuine wrestling meetings (one or two great ones, by the way). But in the end, I experienced too much frustration and embarrassment in my life with all that. I started getting too old for these things, and I definitively stopped looking for matches in those corners of the internet.

Yeah, we had to learn this the hard way

Sorry to hear, mate. It sounds like you both wanted to connect.

However, the connection was not aligned in the sense that both of your guy’s desires would be equally met and matched.

Over time we learn what it is that we want and what it is that we don’t want.

This was one of those valuable lessons that perhaps both of you walked away with more understanding.

Keep your mind and your heart open. Sometimes the person for you might not even be in the same state (or country). And never give up.

I would love to throw you around.. And vice versa

would be great!

Are you ever in Massachusetts?

Nop. sadly

Well, we might be in each other's area at some point you never know

Learned couple things, going to try Grindr and Scruff, might have better chances. lol

Hahah ok but dont fight in a sofa.

i have let guys know what i like. i can host 1-2 days a week , and i also look for the sex too . some guys that are new dont realize this is a masculine sport

I have a sofa in need of breaking.

I’m extremely careful about who I meet. Since we all have different preferences and expectations, I really value having plenty of contact beforehand and talking things through properly, sometimes even for weeks before meeting. I admit that I don’t always make it completely clear what I’m looking for in every match, but I pay close attention to everything the other person says, suggests, or recommends. That kind of communication beforehand is very important to me because it helps me work out whether we’re actually going to be a good fit.

And there’s one thing I’m very clear about: I would never meet anyone for anything outside the sporting context, or move things to other apps for that purpose. Years of experience with personal safety have made me quite cautious about other platforms, while I’ve come to trust this one much more.

SMART MOVES!

Hey rival,

I'm sorry for your bad experience, I'm glad it has nothing to do with health injury. All your story sounds very familiar to me. And I also tried Grindr and Scruff.

From my experience, my first advice is to never start "wrestling" a guy that has never done it before and that is not on Meetfighters. People are usually "weaker" than they think they are and also are very "sensitive" to pain. I always try to test my partner, see reaction to some "moves" like a basic mount or side control and usually I get that "Oof, you're brutal" kind of answer. This reaction is very common when you step outside of Meetfighters, not only Grindr. Any guys I met from either dating app or gay bar / Sauna, guys are usually more into sensuality than "rough" play and they get easily triggered when you try to play with them.
With that said, always test what your partner would like to do Wrestling related. If you bearhug someone lightly and they are reacting like you're crushing their soul, then you can't really wrestle them at all. If they're complimenting your strength or gives you a green light like "Oooh I like cuddles" then you can try few things and see how it goes.

In any case, it's all about signal and communication.

About dating apps in general, I'm not gonna tell much. If you don't have a sexy vibe or a good muscle based, you're going nowhere. It's valid for any dating apps including Meetfighters. With internet and apps, World became like a wide marketplace when you can pick up whatever you want if you have the right tools. It's a little off-topic but don't expect much from those apps if you're "basic / normie", it only works for physically elitist type of person.
I removed all of those Grindr, Scruff apps as my self confidence got crushed over and over. I just keep Meetfighters for now, mostly for my Wrestling kink and because I still believe on this one but...

Stretto and Alfayiz, two of my favorite cuties. 😊
So you are rivals ha? 😏 You could fight over me anyday 😈😜😘

Hello my dear arch nemesis,

Yeah f*ck them apps. I only had Gr---r for like three hours and it was more than enough!

Wow. What an experience!! I hate awkwardness. Its the worst when guys dont dish out when they say they want it. It appears more of a fantasy for many than an actual thing! Im into gut punches and I take real punches and into getting my limits tested. Im always consistent. I expect that same. Sometimes guys lie about wanting to punch me and try to have regular sex with me. Nothing more annoying than that!

I AM ONLY INTO KINKBOXING FUN. I WAS LUCKY TO MEET TWO KINKBOXERS ON MF WHO WOULD GLOVE UP FOR REAL PUNCHING ACTION. OUR BOXING IS REAL BUT THE AFTERPLAY IS TOTALLY EROTIC. WE USE 12 OZ BOXING GLOVES FOR THE FIGHT. NO RULES, NO REFS. NO RING. HOWEVER, THE LOSER MUST SUCK OFF THE WINNER AND SWALLOW ALL OF HIS SUPERIOR POWERFUL SEXSEED! OUR FETISH FOR YEARS!

You have to be careful even on this site.
You must vet but even then trust your instincts. Recent poor experience with wasted time and small finances on a guy who embellished himself from name to employment to parent care to housing and wrestling condition - he pursued wanting to wrestle because I owned a second property home in the county in PA where he lives. Initial instinct two years ago to not even wrestle when learned of false name he gave me despite 6 weeks of text messages calling him “ Joel” - embarrassed at the gym when manager told me his name was not Joel associated with the phone number ( he wanted to train with me when I was in the area attending to my property as well as wrestle) .
Last spring after he kept looking at my profile and sending me a few messages over two years, I figured I would give him a chance to correct the false name leading issue and embarrassment I had with the gym
Manager over who he was ( she wanted to give him a referral bonus ) .
Anyway over one crummy wrestle at his residence / the filthiest mold invested place I had ever been inside of , and a few gym training sessions which were a slow down for me - realized the guy was one embellishment after another - he even ran a specific wrestling style in the ground verbally then went 4 hours away to wrestle a guy I know who only wrestles that style. I checked with my friend and he said he was lousy. This guy wrestles whoever he can for one purpose to get another number and a positive recommendation ( as he gives one expecting one in return ) . If you do not provide or remove yours he gets ugly with messages.

Bottom line must vet - but even then do not get suckered into guys who have so many false claims or embellishments about themselves - DO not think a guy is great to wrestle just because he has a large number of opponents , do not trust recommendations and ask for pictures of their wrestling space - this was in a third floor attic of a slum row house and do not feel sorry for anyone who is lazy / unambitious capable or working a full time job but choosing subsidy over others supporting him.