Does dating exist in this community?

I'm open to a relationship as well .I like minded guys into.wrestling and not having constant arguments about who I'm wrestling etc

Open to south florida around FTL

I have discovered that dating does exist in this community. I am currently looking for a roommate 20 miles north of Atlanta, who wrestles, and even better if becomes a long term relationship. Feel free to check my profile and send me a message. Please only serious inquiries. May we all find what and who we are looking for while being a part of this community.

It’s a mixed blessing.
My partner and I met on this site about 15 years ago. Now married.
We don’t wrestle each other anymore. Haven’t for years. In my experience you gain something when you meet someone on here, but there is always a risk that what drew you to each other disappears.

Can it happen to date someone from here? That’d be awesome if it’s possible.

Someone responded, but lives in Greece, first had no clue where that is lolololol….looking to date someone in the US

I am currently in a relationship with a guy who doesnt wrestle. Its a relatively new partnership and as we get to know each other I will being up the fact that I wrestle and grapple bjj.

If he likes that its perfect. If he is not into it I completely understand. Early on I did tell him about this site and thst I wrestle other men and he wasn't against that or have a strong negative reaction but........

It is clear from those threads that dating within the community is not only possible but can lead to some incredibly deep connections. I would love to date someone who is properly into wrestling—it would be absolutely amazing! There is something so magnetic about finding a partner who shares that specific passion, especially when it goes beyond just a hobby and becomes a core part of how you connect. It would be especially thrilling to find a lad who shares my love for the pro side of things, getting all geared up in wrestling spandex briefs and boots.

Imagine the heat of a proper session with someone who appreciates the aesthetic and the intensity as much as I do. It adds a delicious, kinky edge to the idea of a "match" when you both look the part and are ready to get stuck in.

The Ultimate "Welcome Home"

Imagine this: You’ve had a proper slog of a day at work, the kind where you’re just ready to pack it in. You unlock the front door, drop your keys, and there it is—right in the middle of the hallway.

Your favourite pair of spandex wrestling briefs are laid out neatly next to your boots, the laces already loosened and ready for you to step into. Resting on top of the spandex is a handwritten note that simply says:

"Rough day? I’ve got the perfect remedy. Get your gear on and get into the lounge. Don’t keep me waiting."

The exhaustion would vanish instantly, replaced by that sharp, kinky spike of adrenaline. You’d pull on the spandex, feeling that familiar, tight stretch, and lace up the boots until they’re snug against your calves. By the time you’d stand up, you wouldn't be the "tired employee" anymore; you’d be a wrestler ready for a main-event clash.

You’d walk into the lounge to find him already geared up, perhaps paced out on the rug or waiting on the sofa with that "come and get it" look in his eyes. No "How was your day?" or "What’s for dinner?"—just the immediate, physical intensity of a man who knows exactly what you need. A few heavy grapples, a bit of proper showmanship in those boots, and all that work stress would be hammered out of you in the best possible way.

Having that shared language of wrestling means your relationship has this built-in physical outlet that’s both incredibly flirty and deeply masculine. It turns a standard evening into something legendary.

I've certainly experienced that in the past.
My then partner picking me up from work, driving home to his place talking about normal stuff all the way but on arrival finding the mats are out and the trunks are in our corners ..
Both willing, both always up for it..both understand the need of the other to wrestle no matter what..
Both going competitive on each other wanting to win but after there are no hard feelings. We both know it's the match and we fight to improve ourselves for when we meet others.

Sounds like heaven to me

The answer for me is Hell YES! If it wasn’t for Gutpunching I’m not sure how I would have met many? I’ve made good friends and more from MeetFighters. Even living now with a past opponent who I love very much. Dating here is better than any other app! Plus you don’t have to be shy to ask to Fight and communicate.

I am open to dating someone I wrestle. For me the issue would be location. Do I give up my career and house to move or does he.

I've dated wrestlers, fighters warriors. I loved it. I want to date more. He'd have to be masculine and submissive and in shape.

Yes, it's a real thing in the community, and it's awesome when you find your match. It's more common than people think because not all couples make it known here on their profiles. It's done in all kinds of different ways, like other gay relationships. No matter how it's done, it's cool to have someone to share this with so intimately and over the course of time.

Now moving in in Nov in FL with Wrestlebud30 gonna be fun

Currently looking for roommates in y house outside of Chicago, and to find a place in south Florida this November to move to PT after that possibilities

With all these scissors guys, I happy date a wrestler good with his legs.
But yeah I was dating a guy once from here, unfortunately his life was at a crossroads and he took the wrong turn. But we did enjoy the time on dates and wrestling

I've dated on here before, definitely real. I've also made some great connections that would probably be relationships if not for the distance (not being delusional we've had conversations about it). So you can find people on here but I probably wouldn't use it as the main source. I tend to get positive feedback from people on other apps when I say that I'm into wrestling/scissors but I do think a lot like the idea of it rather than actually doing it long term.

I find with other apps people are interested in the play but by interested it's maybe a minute of play followed by vanilla sex...

That happens far too often

Is there a better date than fight and have a guy wear a gi for you? 🤔

Kinda would be awesome if you ask me

Ok. Hey man Lets fight male to male wearing a bjj gi?

Kinda asking for myself. Just wondered if dating is a real thing in this community. And what that would look like

It's possible,, I'm at the point unless the guy is into combat, I'm not interested. Wrestling is my core, I'd rather wrestle than do anything else with a guy, so friends who wrestle is what I have. I'd live a ltr with a boxer or wrestler

Can honestly say I've never had a meeting with anyone on here that turned into a relationship, but I have dated other fighters before. It has its own set of advantages and disadvantages, just like dating a "civilian" does.