No MAGA/republicans/conservatives. If you reach out, be direct in your first message, especially if your profile is basically empty, otherwise I'll assume you're a time waster.

I am a BJJ blue belt, I teach because I want to help this community grow and get better, ego doesn't play into that. I can be very technical and competitive at times but can dial it back as needed. I LOVE real wrestling and submission wrestling.

That being said, I have spent most of my time in the more dominant "heel" role and while I'm often down to do that I have a very neglected sub side. I love being dominated and feeling trapped, and I love being squeezed more than most people who say they are into bearhugs and bodyscissors. If I'm honest scissors are one of the two things that originally got me interested in wrestling, that and singlets. While I like the pressure, the breath control, a lot of it is about the dominance and helplessness which I sometimes struggle with because with my training I am rarely actually helpless. I can be told to just take it but I'm also open to bondage to ensure I behave myself. I do prefer more intense scenes that push me to panicking with taps ignored with the exception of potential injury which I will voice. While chokes are not off the table I prefer being conservative when it comes to choke outs. I really need to trust you first and make sure your technique is good, you know when to let go and that there are very few within the same scene. With the right guy I can enjoy headscissors for control, holding my face to their crotch, and using their balls for breath control. Face sitting, ass to face, is not something I want.

I can be a pretty mean (but caring) heel. Ultimately I want my subs to get the scene they came for. I prefer communication whenever possible to ensure we're both having a good time.

Erotic is not a priority for me. I'm not a fan of dry humping on each other. I am often ok with genital contact but the right chemistry has to be there and if it's not it feels invasive. Likewise, getting off is not a priority at all. I think 2 or 3 matches in 20 years have lead to that, 1 to actual fucking.

At the end of the day I want us both to have a good time. I think my biggest frustration has more to do with the match not resembling what was negotiated ahead of time, especially with people who have said they want to Dom me. Oftentimes what I said I wanted out of it never happens and guys will spend most of the time doing things I said I was ok with but not enthusiastic about.

Safety matters to me. Some of you guys really don't respect necks. When you crank or bend necks around your arms or calves, do you know what the outcomes of that are? Paralysis, stroke (the spine has arteries in it), dislocations, serious injuries you do no come back from. You crank my neck, we are done. Hard limit.