I once had a session with a guy where we traded body scissors to see if either of us could break out. Well, I could break out of his, but he could not break out of mine. We both found that pretty hot! Last year a guy wanted punishment both with headlock and head leg scissors. He had allocated two hours for a session but after about 35 to 40 minutes in my scissors around his head, he had to stop he could not take anymore. But I think he really enjoyed it!
It does seem odd that body scissors is a fetish you’d have to explain to anyone from this site, but I do hear the frustrations from both of you. (Additionally, the three of us are all too far away from each other to do anything about it!)
Sadly, I have to agree with you; it seems finding those into applying bodyscissors are becoming very scarce and hard to find. A pattern I have noticed is that body type is a focused variable. If you are too skinny, then the fear of breaking Ribs comes into play; if you are too broad or fluffy (I don't like using the other word), then they can't get their legs around you. Then you take into account height differences.
Then you take the mental fact, and that is the part I absolutely understand. I mean, how do you even begin to explain to someone that this is a fetish for you? Even on the opposite side(the sadistic side), I struggle to tell anyone that I actually want to do the exact scenario for fear of being rejected or looked at like a freak.
To be honest what I need is to do the opposite of what the title here suggests. Normally I would write this kind of post as a blog but I want it here where the right people will see it. Self serving, I know...
Anyway, today was an example of the conflict between Chris the wrestler and Chris the masochist. Had a guy over, really strong guy, and we had discussed trading scissors last time he was in town but things didn't line up so we met today and actually rolled. I knew he wanted to be squeezed, and he knew I did, but the difference in our skill levels meant that I dominated the whole time. This isn't the first time, I have had several strong and even jacked guys on the mats where this exact scenario has played out like this. I'll drop hints that I'm open to dropping intensity or even the type of match but I'm not good at asking for what I want, especially that outside of meetfighters, I'm actually not that open about my bodyscissor kink. When I have been it has not really done me much good. It's really when people are passing through that I actually get the opportunity and it really has to be the other person saying, no, I'm here to dominate you.
I've been pretty open about that, I don't know if it's in my current profile or previous ones or in the blog but I have modes that don't really overlap. There's sub, there's Dom, there's competitive. Today competitive mode was behind the wheel as it often is. The irony being that I had been looking forward to getting squeezed all week. This is in no way his fault, mind you, we rolled and I once again didn't feel comfortable saying that I wanted him to scissor the hell out of me.
I think my profile actually works against me too. I'm trying to be too many things for too many people. I teach because I want to help people along, I am skilled and feel I need to broadcast it because I get frustrated when people with no idea what they are doing try to play the heel with me and I struggle to tolerate the fakeness of it. It's different than a scissor scene, mind you. This is more people trying to roll and me dialing it back until the knob breaks off and I can't dial it back any further, they really are just not that effective at rolling and controlling. I'm talking about rolling. There is an off button and plenty of guys have done it. It's, I'm going to squeeze you and you're going to let it happen. If you want the helplessness to be real, I have rope, lol.
The thing is that I never don't want to be crushed. I don't do trash talk but if guys were to message me threatening me with all the horrors their legs and arms can offer I'd appreciate the threat. I do have the bad habit that if it's framed as them beating me in a competitive match of being dismissive and saying we'll just see what happens because 99 times out of a hundred that's not going to be the case. At the end of the day I just want to find my limits, have my taps ignored, to feel helpless and at the mercy of a sadist getting off on my suffering. Sorry if you were looking for me to be insightful or to say something to turn you on but it's something I just needed to say. I'm worried that people are losing interest in bodyscissors in favor of head scissors and bearhugs which is a real shame.
j50yomuscle (4 )
8/31/2026 6:43 PMI once had a session with a guy where we traded body scissors to see if either of us could break out. Well, I could break out of his, but he could not break out of mine. We both found that pretty hot! Last year a guy wanted punishment both with headlock and head leg scissors. He had allocated two hours for a session but after about 35 to 40 minutes in my scissors around his head, he had to stop he could not take anymore. But I think he really enjoyed it!
NYC Wrestling (71)
8/30/2026 5:39 PMIt does seem odd that body scissors is a fetish you’d have to explain to anyone from this site, but I do hear the frustrations from both of you. (Additionally, the three of us are all too far away from each other to do anything about it!)
Lovetobecrushed23 (33 )
8/30/2026 4:47 PMSadly, I have to agree with you; it seems finding those into applying bodyscissors are becoming very scarce and hard to find. A pattern I have noticed is that body type is a focused variable. If you are too skinny, then the fear of breaking Ribs comes into play; if you are too broad or fluffy (I don't like using the other word), then they can't get their legs around you. Then you take into account height differences.
Then you take the mental fact, and that is the part I absolutely understand. I mean, how do you even begin to explain to someone that this is a fetish for you? Even on the opposite side(the sadistic side), I struggle to tell anyone that I actually want to do the exact scenario for fear of being rejected or looked at like a freak.
ChrisWrestling (62 )
8/29/2026 6:12 AMTo be honest what I need is to do the opposite of what the title here suggests. Normally I would write this kind of post as a blog but I want it here where the right people will see it. Self serving, I know...
Anyway, today was an example of the conflict between Chris the wrestler and Chris the masochist. Had a guy over, really strong guy, and we had discussed trading scissors last time he was in town but things didn't line up so we met today and actually rolled. I knew he wanted to be squeezed, and he knew I did, but the difference in our skill levels meant that I dominated the whole time. This isn't the first time, I have had several strong and even jacked guys on the mats where this exact scenario has played out like this. I'll drop hints that I'm open to dropping intensity or even the type of match but I'm not good at asking for what I want, especially that outside of meetfighters, I'm actually not that open about my bodyscissor kink. When I have been it has not really done me much good. It's really when people are passing through that I actually get the opportunity and it really has to be the other person saying, no, I'm here to dominate you.
I've been pretty open about that, I don't know if it's in my current profile or previous ones or in the blog but I have modes that don't really overlap. There's sub, there's Dom, there's competitive. Today competitive mode was behind the wheel as it often is. The irony being that I had been looking forward to getting squeezed all week. This is in no way his fault, mind you, we rolled and I once again didn't feel comfortable saying that I wanted him to scissor the hell out of me.
I think my profile actually works against me too. I'm trying to be too many things for too many people. I teach because I want to help people along, I am skilled and feel I need to broadcast it because I get frustrated when people with no idea what they are doing try to play the heel with me and I struggle to tolerate the fakeness of it. It's different than a scissor scene, mind you. This is more people trying to roll and me dialing it back until the knob breaks off and I can't dial it back any further, they really are just not that effective at rolling and controlling. I'm talking about rolling. There is an off button and plenty of guys have done it. It's, I'm going to squeeze you and you're going to let it happen. If you want the helplessness to be real, I have rope, lol.
The thing is that I never don't want to be crushed. I don't do trash talk but if guys were to message me threatening me with all the horrors their legs and arms can offer I'd appreciate the threat. I do have the bad habit that if it's framed as them beating me in a competitive match of being dismissive and saying we'll just see what happens because 99 times out of a hundred that's not going to be the case. At the end of the day I just want to find my limits, have my taps ignored, to feel helpless and at the mercy of a sadist getting off on my suffering. Sorry if you were looking for me to be insightful or to say something to turn you on but it's something I just needed to say. I'm worried that people are losing interest in bodyscissors in favor of head scissors and bearhugs which is a real shame.