Naked Kombat seems to have the most offerings these days that fit the format that most want and fear as possible outcomes.
With everything post match being consensual, you still need to know your limits and only agree to go that far as well as staying within the limits or your partner at the time.
A good conversation helps to put everyone on the same page.
Hi Maverick, one of your profile pics proves you wrong. It shows you in almost the same "precarious" position like the guys in the vid.
Come on: How did it feel to be mounted like this? 😜
Stakes are good and a lot of fun. But I would agree with the comment that if you've never bottomed before you don't want the first time you're fucked to be after losing a fight. I read on another thread how someone unprepared was almost traumatised by it. Work up the scale of sexual stakes and when you've bottomed a few times, you'll be ready for it if you lose. I think then you'd get pleasure from the physicality and intensity of it :)
Hey everyone. New to this site on the recommendation of someone from Reddit.
I’m 33, 6’4”, 220lb.
Never wrestled anyone. Ever. Saw two guys wrestling and it turned me on. My mind eventually went to “sex fight” fantasy.
The idea of participating in one simultaneously turns me on and scares me too. Was wondering if people here can give insight (if this is even the right place to post) on what it’s like to do it, what it’s like to win, what it’s like to lose, and your experiences with it in general.
Obviously, I don’t want to be the guy that loses (never been fucked) but I also don’t wanna be the guy who ends up permanently injured or in the ER.
Thanks in advance and looking forward to hearing responses.
First off, welcome to the site and to the subculture! We were all where you are at one point or another.
I'll agree with metuck and Tom - have a regular match first. Or a few regular matches. Or a few dozen regular matches. You might have to travel a bit, but the Bay Area isn't that far from you. Figure out what you genuinely enjoy doing and what you only enjoy watching / fantasizing about, and be upfront and honest about it (see my profile for an example of what I'm always into, what I'm never into, and what's in between).
And when you *are* ready for a stakes match - meet the guy ahead of time. Online chemistry doesn't always translate into in-person chemistry, and I've been on both ends of that.
I agree.
I am fine with stakes, but only if there is chemistry. Not into forcing anything, no matter what side of the 3-count I am on.
Often hard to see the other guy ahead of time, but best if we can. I still do stakes with guys I meet and wrestle first time. Just need to have a few minutes of chatting and tussling then can confirm if the stakes are fine or should be called off. If the guy has been lying (doesn't look even close to profile pics) then it is off before it starts.
Even without the high stakes I was definitely hestitant about wrestling because I was always an athlete, a very competitive person and just losing and being made submisive to the point of tapping and admitting the other guy beat me was scary. Had the fantasies but avoided it for way too many years until I finally had the courage for a match against a smaller guy which I won, and loved it. I worked hard not to lose in my next several matches and kept winning. However, eventually I lost...and was quite surprised that I really enjoyed that as well. I still want to win but losing, and being made a jobber, is now seen as an enjoyable alternative, even with (especially with) stakes.
However, I would not recommend starting with loser gets fucked stakes. Loser licks and sucks to please the winner is likely a better stake to start, if you want erotic (I usually have loser serves the drinks dressed - or not dressed as the winner prefers - after the match as well 😉). Probably better to try bottoming for the first time outside a match, it can take a few tries to get used to it and it can be painful for a nervous, unprepared first time. The winner may be be riding a high, enjoying his victory and not be as gentle as he should be for a virgin bottom.
hvywght blk bxr (7)
12 days agoNaked Kombat seems to have the most offerings these days that fit the format that most want and fear as possible outcomes.
With everything post match being consensual, you still need to know your limits and only agree to go that far as well as staying within the limits or your partner at the time.
A good conversation helps to put everyone on the same page.
maverick1964 (3)
17 days agoMatching up so you feel comfortable and the closer you are to each other, the better - for me anyways.
Definitely be mentally prepared for losing versus winning as winning is a much easier mindset.
Alpha vs Alpha makes for a great match ... you can define winner take all lol
Highly agree getting matches in with no or light stakes and you'll know when your ready to elevate the stakes.
My favorite men's match is:
https://xhamster.desi/videos/men-wrestling-4120844
I had a match like this but it didn't go THAT FAR. Enjoy
blnfighter (55 )
14 days ago(In reply to this)
Hi Maverick, one of your profile pics proves you wrong. It shows you in almost the same "precarious" position like the guys in the vid.
Come on: How did it feel to be mounted like this? 😜
Tommz73 (0)
20 days agoStakes are good and a lot of fun. But I would agree with the comment that if you've never bottomed before you don't want the first time you're fucked to be after losing a fight. I read on another thread how someone unprepared was almost traumatised by it. Work up the scale of sexual stakes and when you've bottomed a few times, you'll be ready for it if you lose. I think then you'd get pleasure from the physicality and intensity of it :)
slyph82 (25 )
18 days ago(In reply to this)
So true. Yet so many men can’t conceptualize bottoming at any other time.
MikeyUSA (0)
21 days agoHey everyone. New to this site on the recommendation of someone from Reddit.
I’m 33, 6’4”, 220lb.
Never wrestled anyone. Ever. Saw two guys wrestling and it turned me on. My mind eventually went to “sex fight” fantasy.
The idea of participating in one simultaneously turns me on and scares me too. Was wondering if people here can give insight (if this is even the right place to post) on what it’s like to do it, what it’s like to win, what it’s like to lose, and your experiences with it in general.
Obviously, I don’t want to be the guy that loses (never been fucked) but I also don’t wanna be the guy who ends up permanently injured or in the ER.
Thanks in advance and looking forward to hearing responses.
JiminQueens2 (84)
19 days ago(In reply to this)
First off, welcome to the site and to the subculture! We were all where you are at one point or another.
I'll agree with metuck and Tom - have a regular match first. Or a few regular matches. Or a few dozen regular matches. You might have to travel a bit, but the Bay Area isn't that far from you. Figure out what you genuinely enjoy doing and what you only enjoy watching / fantasizing about, and be upfront and honest about it (see my profile for an example of what I'm always into, what I'm never into, and what's in between).
And when you *are* ready for a stakes match - meet the guy ahead of time. Online chemistry doesn't always translate into in-person chemistry, and I've been on both ends of that.
metuck12 (74)
19 days ago(In reply to this)
I agree.
I am fine with stakes, but only if there is chemistry. Not into forcing anything, no matter what side of the 3-count I am on.
Often hard to see the other guy ahead of time, but best if we can. I still do stakes with guys I meet and wrestle first time. Just need to have a few minutes of chatting and tussling then can confirm if the stakes are fine or should be called off. If the guy has been lying (doesn't look even close to profile pics) then it is off before it starts.
metuck12 (74)
20 days ago(In reply to this)
Even without the high stakes I was definitely hestitant about wrestling because I was always an athlete, a very competitive person and just losing and being made submisive to the point of tapping and admitting the other guy beat me was scary. Had the fantasies but avoided it for way too many years until I finally had the courage for a match against a smaller guy which I won, and loved it. I worked hard not to lose in my next several matches and kept winning. However, eventually I lost...and was quite surprised that I really enjoyed that as well. I still want to win but losing, and being made a jobber, is now seen as an enjoyable alternative, even with (especially with) stakes.
However, I would not recommend starting with loser gets fucked stakes. Loser licks and sucks to please the winner is likely a better stake to start, if you want erotic (I usually have loser serves the drinks dressed - or not dressed as the winner prefers - after the match as well 😉). Probably better to try bottoming for the first time outside a match, it can take a few tries to get used to it and it can be painful for a nervous, unprepared first time. The winner may be be riding a high, enjoying his victory and not be as gentle as he should be for a virgin bottom.