primalprincess's blog

I hope that this did not happen to you!

No it has not personally happened to me thank God but you wonder why so few women are on this site and there are men who are abusing session wrestlers, the police should to be involved it's disgusting

I agree. Those types of “men” make us all look bad. I have great respect for session wrestlers and the things that they deal with from some clients

I hope your ok - I've said it before and I'll say it again for those in the back. This behaviour is not ok!

I hope everyone can enjoy this fun activity safely. There's zero excuse for hurting anyone, or even applying things to stiffly (unless that's what all parties want). I remember mixed wrestling multi-person events being advertised when I lived in NYC. I wonder if group meetings/parties are safer for mixed activities.

Unfortunately there's a number of guys out there whom I have come across who will say things like "no woman can win against me" or "you won't stand a chance against me" or who will try getting handsy with a woman when it's not been discussed and agreed to beforehand. Then the same guys will ask why women won't challenge them or give them a go on the mats.

Whilst I absolutely love a full competitive erotic style wrestle it's not the most important thing to me in my kink for enjoying mixed wrestling. My main aim is for them to enjoy the experience and walk away wanting to have a go at it again be that with myself or others. Consent & negotiation as to what both are happy with is incredibly important.

I've met a few guys on here whereby they say they'd love to wrestle women, asking how I manage to do it. It takes time, patience and understanding along with others vouching that you're someone safe to roll with. Other guys I've met on here just insult session wrestlers saying they charge too much or won't do erotic wrestling.
They find it hard to understand that session wrestling is a self employed job generally, that if they're injured through a session then that's them out for the time of that injury and they may not have another job that pays them as well as the wrestling.

I absolutely hear primal princess on this matter.

Having wrestled women previously, it's all about respect, agreed limits and not overstepping the line... it is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties, not just for the gratification of one. Physical abuse of woman is totally unacceptable in any scenario, and displays a psychotic tendency that requires professional treatment.