I'm looking for competitive submission matches against opponents around my size (160 - 200#). Even better if you're near my age and skill level (me: highly stubborn, decently strong, almost completely untrained).

Because my default setting is competitive, I'm not looking for: pro fantasy, pro-mission, rolling around, size mismatches, skill mismatches, or just trading holds. All fun, I'm sure, but not for me.

Big YES to: one hour endurance matches, tag teams, group meets, dad vs dad, dads vs sons, ongoing rivalries and grudge matches, and wrestle for top.

Big fan of not going to the ER.