I have been training BJJ since ‘18 (purple belt). I compete sometimes.

I am strong, technical, and difficult to submit. This comes off as cocky, but if “cocky” means that I think i am better (at jiu jitsu) than someone who learned a few moves off YouTube and practiced them on the puzzle mats they bought from an ad off YouTube, then I guess I am cocky. Maybe you can humble me?

I have had to learn to compartmentalize wrestling into “non-sexual” and “sexual”, because I didn’t want to get a boner every time I rolled with an attractive person in class. As a result, I don’t get turned on just by wrestling; I need chemistry with the person first.

I am intrigued by people who have a wrestling kink/fetish, as a lot of “jiu jitsu moves” translate into “sex moves”, so thats fun to explore sometimes. Especially if you like getting beat up, I can practice moves/holds/chokes you.